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How does a mother forget the most horrible day in her life? She doesn't.
March 9th, 2009. I'm exhausted both kids (my son 9 month and my daughter
3 yrs) have the influenza. I'm keeping them hydrated and hoping that this
is the last days. It's been three days already. My daughter Arden is acting
up and I'm thinking she must be getting better.
3 AM Arden throws up. I've had enough and decide to bring her to emergency
after I've bathed her. She's not sitting for me and I'm not sure what to
make of this. The admitting nurse seems perplexed at why we are there at
such an ungodly hours. I want someone to tell me Arden is alright but no
one does. They keep us for some test and want a X-ray at 8am. As I get to
the technician, Arden throws up everwhere and starts convulsing. At this
point, I'm running back to ER. From there, it's all a blur, the nice doctor
is telling me what he's doing. Arden has been stripped and intubated and
paralyzed for the ambulance right to MacMaster Sick Children in Hamilton.
I'm still thinking this is a bad dream.
We get to Mac and they are running lumbar punctures, EEG, CT Scan and MRI
over a few days. They come back two days later with encephalitis and the
following day with acute nectrotizing encephalitis. They said that she's
got a 33% chance to not advance from this stage (she's statue like at this
point. only moving one leg and crying out); 33% that she'll progress a bit
further and 33% percent that she will have slight tremors and not be able
to regulate her body. I don't know what to think my perfect little angel
is going to the most awful thing and I can't help her. She has inflammation
on the brain stem and ponds area. She now has to relearn all her motor skills.
She can't talk, smile or sit. It took three weeks for Arden to smile. It
was the longest three weeks of my life.
It took Arden 3 months to be able to sit. But today, Sept 2009, she can
walk a few steps without any help. Arden mainly uses her walker, she rides
a tricycle like most three years old should be doing. Her personality is
in tack. Thank you God!.
Only time will tell me if Arden is ever going to get better. But one time
that I know for sure, is that whatever she decides to do will be done like
the warrior/survivor that she is.
Mom
Guelph, Ontario

Posted: September 3, 2009
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