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Oz contracted Herpes simplex Encephalitis, in June 2001; he was 39 years at the time.
We decided one day that we would pack up and go to Aussie for a better future; Oz got offered a Job in the mines in Emerald. So we decided to sell everything up, Oz went over first to set up and myself and the children stayed behind. He had been over there for a year at this stage, flying back every three months to see us.
Oz was the sort of man who would help anyone in need, hard worker 12-hour shifts, good provider, loving husband and a wonderful father. The children and I were still in New Zealand trying to get a visa; the house was all set up for us. This day I was waiting for Oz's call as he rang me every night when he got home from work. I had this gut feeling something was wrong. A week before Oz got sick he was complaining of sores on his body, like boils, he was starting to forget things at work, and just a general feeling of not being very well.
Oz walked to the car after work, and the strange bit was he didn't have a shower before he left work, which was unusual as he was covered in coal soot. His mate went to get in the car and Oz started having convulsions, so he rang the ambulance. They took Oz to Emerald hospital where they tried to stop the seizures. Nothing worked they did bloods, tried to do a spinal tap, toxicology, and they suspected drug abuse.
While in there they put Oz in our railed bed he was trashing his legs against
the rails, and gushed them so deep you could see the bone. At
this stage they were really looking after him. (Joke the other
half of the time they were scratching their heads.) They decided
to send him to a bigger hospital. Oz was put in ICU and put
into a drug-induced coma so they could do the tests. OZ was
having 200 seizures.
They did 3 lumber punctures, MRI testing and more tests, all were normal, his
temperature was 109. At this stage they told me he wouldn't
last the night. I tried to get a visa to fly over, immigration
turned me down. So I had to sit tight and live on the phone
to the hospital this was heart wrenching I couldn't be with
my husband.
They flew a specialist from Brisbane, and decided to try Oz on the antibiotic
they use for Encephalitis, within 24 hours Oz's seizures stopped
and his temp went down. So 6 days in ICU, 2 days in a normal
ward and realized. Two days later Oz was flying back to New
Zealand; to this day I wonder how anyone let him fly, he was
shaking and shuffling through the airport, lucky he didn't have
a seizure on the plane. He had one before he got on and one
when he got off. When I arrived at the airport to pick Oz up
I didn't recognize him, he looked like a skeleton and was finding
it very hard to walk. I asked what medication are you on? Nothing.
Did they do a follow up? No. This is when Jill's rampage began.
I took him to our doctor; he said he would put in a referral
to the hospital to a neurologist, urgent waiting list 6 months
2 years.
The crutch came when Oz sceamed at one of our daughters for not putting her shoes
on fast enough, then he stormed out of the house. I was yelling
at him to come back, he told me that was it, he was going to
take his life. Well I had to ring the police to find him, they
found him in a shop begging for help as he couldn't remember
his last name or where he lived, but he asked them to lock him.
I had already explained to the police to pick him up and be
very understanding of his condition, they were very good, but
they took him to the hospital and he was admitted to the mental
ward.
It took them 2 days to realize he shouldn't be there and they couldn't do anything
for him. Told the spec he was seeing things on TV that were
not there (well I couldn't see them) and hearing voices, having
hallucinations, a shaking fit at night and during the day he
would go into trances. Well the spec put his meds up and said
times the healer.
We are nearly a year down the track, I have sent so many emails, cried yelled,
nearly had a break down trying to cope with it all. We were
living on $90,0000 a year, so I had to go and work and now we
are living on $25,0000. There have been times where I wanted
to run away, but I married my husband because I loved him with
all my heart and this was the time in our marriage he really
needed me. We have our good days and bad ones, I have made a
vow to myself that I will fight and kick ass till we get the
proper care we deserve. It's under the basic human rights. There
are others out there to, we are not alone, someone else understands,
and someone cares, thank you again for this web site.
I'm OZ'S WIFE, MOTHER, DOCTOR and NURSE. I will stand by him all the way, and I hope we can be of any help to others.
My lesson from this was to have as many people in our corner, our local hospital social worker, our B.IA. counselor, epileptic advocate, as 90% of brain injures suffer from epileptic episodes. I research every night, read the different E stories with hope that I pick up the strength to carry on and help Oz to do the same. Will keep you posted with further developments.
Wife, Jill
New Zealand

Posted: May 17, 2002
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