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My name is Mandy Bursley, I am 41 years
old and my mother, Lori was diagnosed with HSE April 2006 at the age
of 63. I'd like to tell you a little about her story and what she's
been through. I often thought we were the only ones going through
this until I found this site.
I had went to pick her up early in the morning with intentions of taking her to
the airport for her trip to Germany for her mother’s 95th birthday
(mom is full German and her entire family still lives there), instead
I found her slumped over on the couch with her eyes racing back and
forth and completely unconscious. I had at first thought she had a
stroke since the right side of her face was sagging and etc. When
the paramedics arrived they put her on oxygen and she regained consciousness,
but the right side of her face was still sagging which made us think
stroke still. By the time we made it to the hospital and were waiting
for the doctor she was having severe hallucinations and obviously
was very scared. The ER doctor went through the 50 million questions
and she was able to answer every one but could not hold a conversation,
instead she would just stare at me and fidget with my hands and pull
my hair (she could not make the connection at that time that it was
attached to my head). The ER doctor asked about smoking and alcohol
consumption and she answered yes to both and when asked how much alcohol
she answered with "a 12 pack a day" which I knew was untrue but that
comment alone labeled her. When I tried to explain to the doctor that
she doesn't drink a 12 pack of beer a day he had already made his
mind made up and diagnosed her as ... "going through DT's". They gave
her Haldol for the hallucinations and did a CT scan. The CT scan came
back fine so therefore they were done, nothing more was needed! I
literally had to get loud to get more help and be heard! When the
doctor came back I asked if I am the one or if he's the one to request
for a Neurologist since I knew there was something definitely wrong
with Mom and it wasn't from alcohol! He told me that they ran enough
tests and there was no need for an MRI since the CT scan came back
normal. He told me the doctor she will be assigned to when she's admitted
to a floor may request more tests. I immediately asked to speak with
him NOW (I lost faith in the ER doctor and knew that time was limited).
Once the other doctor showed up he agreed with me that there was something
else going on with her and requested a neuro counsel but we were still
waiting for a room. Once in her room the Neurologist assessed her
and was almost certain that she had HSE but needed to do a spinal
tap, MRI, EEG, etc. to confirm but also told me that her window was
very small and we needed to start treatment immediately. It was then
that I found out that she had more or less been overmedicated with
the Haldol by the ER and her hallucinations had "flopped" (they were
more severe than ever). I spent that night in a folding chair next
to her bed living and watching her hallucinations as they came one
at a time about every 10 minutes one more severe then the next. It
was a nightmare and I thought it would never end but thank God the
Neurologist hit the nail on the head and started treatment when she
did, her IV tree was full for almost two weeks. It took several days
but she was starting to come back but had a long road ahead of her.
She had to "rebuild" her memory and still to this day has some problems
with it. We were told that she has some brain damage and short term
memory loss. It wasn't severe enough or obvious enough that we even
gave it another thought we figured we would get through it. The next
year wasn't too bad and then in July of 2007 her husband (my stepfather)
passed away. It was a stressful and sad time but she coped well. January
of 2008, I received a phone call from my husband telling me there's
something wrong with your mom. She called my home looking for me and
when he told her I was at work, he could tell by her response that
there was something wrong with her. She told him that she couldn't
remember anything but remembered enough to call me. I immediately
left work but was still about 30-45 minutes away so my brother whom
lives out of state kept her on the phone, we had fear she would go
unconscious again. When I got to her house she was walking around
confused, when I asked what was wrong she said she didn't know she
just couldn't remember anything. When I asked what she meant by that
she started to get frustrated so I asked what she did today and she
said she wasn't sure, I asked what she ate and she didn't know, I
asked if she took her pills and she said she thought so but couldn't
identify any of them. My first thought again was stroke (her blood
pressure was through the roof!) We drove her to the ER and they got
her in right away of course after arguing with the triage nurse who
asked her 4 times what medication she took and I would reply each
time biting my tongue with “she can’t remember anything that is why
we are here”. The charge nurse finally came over and got her in right
away. Once the doctor came in I explained to her what she went through
a year and a half ago and she started the treatment right away. This
time there were no hallucinations but her memory was a complete blank
slate. She didn't even remember her husband passing and kept asking
questions about pets she had 15 years ago that were long gone. After
about 4 days and every possible test again including a spinal her
Neurologist decided that she had been having seizures this entire
time and no one was aware of it. She described them as a conscious
type, not the convulsions and etc. She is now on Dilantin for them
and will be for the rest of her life. At the present time she is doing
great! She is a different person post HSE but she is still able to
take care of herself, eats, cooks and etc. She still has her days,
her mental state can be off at times, short at other times and sometimes
unaware of her surroundings but overall I'm glad to say she is doing
well!
Lori
WA, USA

Posted: March 22, 2010
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