Our daughter had dinner with her sisters, grand parents and
us at a local hotel for her eighteenth birthday. The plan was
that she was taking a carload of her girl friends to an all
night rage party at a small picnic show ground. Helen and her
friends stayed all night at the venue, as did a lot of other
young people. She arrived home about ten the next day.
It was February on the farm autumn in Australia. This was
two weeks after the rage party. Helen started to lose her
balance to one side. We had noticed a change in her general
behavior about a day before; she had a problem balancing on
the bike and kept falling off toward the one side. Helen said
that she thought she was getting a virus as she felt a bit
off colour. After the supper Helen started to deteriorate
quickly, and definitely had problems standing up. We took
Helen 30 k's into Tumby Bay to the local hospital where the
caring country GP was really worried. He called the air ambulance
and shipped her and Glenys off to Adelaide for treatment.
I followed the women over to the city by commercial airlines
the next day. Helen was confined to bed and had deteriorated
badly in the day I had not seen her.
Test after test was carried out. The final diagnosis was
that she had encephalitis and that there was not much hope
of her surviving. Helen was hardly coherent at the time; she
sat up in bed with her head twisted back unnaturally to one
side. The only thing that Helen could say that was coherent
was "I am going to beat this." This positive attitude was
probably what saved her life. Helen was in hospital in the
city for sixteen weeks. We convinced ourselves that she was
getting better. We chose to bring her home with us to the
farm. The closest that we could work out with the doctors
was that Helen had been bitten by a mosquito at the all night
rage.
Helen had to be taught the most basic things even washing
herself and toilet trained again. Years of therapy followed.
Helen did do a lot to help on the farm in her limiting manner.
Thoughts and memories prior to her accident were easily recalled
but not what she had done the day before. We tried to bring
some sort of normality into Helen's life by taking her to
disco's and the local hotels where her old friends congregated.
A very sad part of this was that a lot of her friends of old
would not have anything to do with her. A couple of young
girls took Helen under their wing when we went to town, they
were not her former best friends as they had vanished. Helen
desperately wanted to work and help people. We were lucky
to get her voluntary work in the local hospital in the laundry.
She worked there for about eighteen months, driving herself
to town. I walked into the local bar one night, one of the
local alcoholics came up to me and informed me that they had
taken Helen under their wing and had warned off the creeps
who were hanging around. Marvelous from where help comes from,
a few of the more persistent bums had a punch in the nose
from Helen's Knights in shining armor.
Helen moved to Port Lincoln. We all talked this over and
decided that we may have been trying to be over protective
and that this should be given a try. A few weeks after moving
in to town Helen informed us that she had met a guy and that
he was going to help her look after her money. Steve has had
a few problems himself at times and moved in with Helen in
the flat. The spending stopped and Helen began saving money
again. Steve had a slight marijuana problem Helen was dead
against this. The two have helped each other.
Helen has now sixteen years after the dreadful debilitating disease, has a beautiful daughter now three years old, she is a good mum. The local GP at Tumby Bay did a lot of work with Helen regarding drugs to stabilize her mood swings and panic attacks to great success. Serenase and Tofrinil are the drugs, which are use in varying doses according to her moods. We consider we are lucky to still have Helen with us. She is a lovely young woman.